You know this moment: A decision is made. Everyone agrees. You leave the room confident. Three weeks later, nothing has moved. The strategy is stuck. The same tensions are hiding under the surface. Your instinct, honed over years of getting things done, is to find the source. Who dropped the ball? Who is resisting? Who isn't up to it? That instinct has previously shown some success. But it's also keeping you stuck. Because the problem is rarely the person. The problem is the pattern. And the pattern is in the system you are leading.
The Ghosts in Your Organisation
Walk into any senior team and you will find them. Recurring dynamics that no one mentions. An elephant so large it's become part of the furniture. A predecessor whose shadow still falls across every decision. A colleague who is constantly discussed in their absence. Change efforts that surge forward, then quietly reverse for reasons no one can explain.
These are not performance issues. They are signals.
They speak of loyalties that cannot be voiced. Of responsibility held without authority. Of unfinished business that no one has dared to close. Of a system protecting itself from a truth it is not ready to face. If you read these signals as individual failure, you stay on the surface. You apply more pressure to the wrong place. You become part of the pattern instead of the person who sees it.
The Shift That Changes Everything
When you learn to read systemically, everything shifts.
These questions don't let people off the hook. They put you back in control. Because when you see the pattern you are inside, you stop reinforcing it. You regain choice. Your authority amplifies everything. Your attention, your tone, your silence - they shape the field around you. The question is whether you are shaping it with intent, or by accident.
The Cost of Not Seeing
Every leader inherits a system. The question is whether you will remain inside it, pushing against dynamics you don't see, or whether you will step outside it and finally understand what is really going on.
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